"Where Confidence and Manners Matter"

Voted #1 “Best Youth Dance Instruction” and “Best Dance Event or Series” by Richmond magazine

The Junior Assembly Cotillion season includes seven dances beginning in early September and concluding with our Holly Ball dance in early December.

We enroll students from public, private and parochial schools all over the Richmond metropolitan area. No middle school group is ever separated. The exception to this is Moody, Wilder and Tuckahoe Middle IB (if not home-based middle school); those students attend cotillion with their home-based middle school.  We are very proud of the diversity of our cotillion and try to include as many children as possible.

We reach families through parent representatives within schools but not from within the school administration itself. Participation is by invitation so we can ensure a close to equal number of boys and girls at each dance. If you are interested in involving your child or a group of students from your child’s school or sports team with Junior Assembly Cotillion, please contact info@juniorassemblycotillion.com.

A fun-filled experience that will last a lifetime!

“I appreciate all the manners, chivalry, and traditions you all reinforced. They have helped me make valuable connections in my social network, and I’m pleased to share that my nickname on the road is ‘Mr. Thank You Note’ because at the end of every tour I do my best to write a thank you note to each of my fellow crew members. As you all would say, ‘a handwritten thank you note goes a long way’ and I believe it really does as well.  Thank you for everything besides just the dances that helped shape us into proper gentlemen and ladies.  It’s much appreciated!”  ~ James I.

“Thank you so much for everything! Cotillion has given me the chance to flourish, and it‘s served as a pathway for me to realize who I am. I‘m grateful for you taking the chance and giving me the Junior Assistant position, despite others in the program who may have had more experience. The program will always have a special place in my heart.”  ~ Kenny A.

“We enrolled our son in cotillion mostly hoping he would have fun and build on new friendships. We’ve been delighted by how much he has gained from this experience! Not only has he learned how to hold a partner in dance position and face the line of direction, he has had the chance to socialize with his peers in an environment that fosters respect and kindness.  We have watched his character develop through the lessons, expectations, and decorum that cotillion emphasizes.
Mrs. Stanko and the Junior Assembly has done an excellent job running each session with consistency and genuine care for the students. Their commitment to upholding expectations and maintaining a positive, structured environment has made all the difference for our son’s experience.  
For our family, cotillion has been more than learning fun dances and manners; it has been an opportunity for our son to practice being his best self. We’re grateful for the experience, and we highly recommend it to anyone considering it for their child.”  ~Lauryn G.

Sixth Grade (A) Cotillion Schedule 2026

Adams International, Grove Christian, Hunter Classical Christian, New Community, Richmond Christian, Richmond Montessori, Riverside, Sabot at Stony Point and Tuckahoe Middle

*all dances held at The Woman's Club unless otherwise noted*

Date Time Theme Dress Code
Sunday, September 13, 2026 2:00 pm - 3:15 pm Go for GOLD!
Fox Hall Clubhouse
13550 Causeway Drive
semi-formal
Friday, September 18, 2026 5:30 pm - 6:45 pm Decades ReMix
Fox Hall Clubhouse
13550 Causeway Drive
nice casual
favorite decades outfit or accessories optional
Friday, October 2, 2026 5:30 pm - 6:45 pm In Living Color semi-formal
wear favorite color(s)
Friday, October 16, 2026 5:30 pm - 6:45 pm Monster Mash costumes optional
Friday, October 30, 2026 5:30 pm - 6:45 pm Operation Gratitude semi-formal
please bring hand-written letter to our Armed Forces
Friday, November 13, 2026 5:30 pm - 6:45 pm Hooked on Country casual/western (boots, bandanas, jeans, etc.)
please bring any leftover Halloween candy to send to our troops
Friday, December 4, 2026 5:30 pm - 6:30 pm The 82nd Holly Ball semi-formal
monetary donations are accepted for The Richmond Christmas Mother

Sixth Grade (B) Cotillion Schedule 2026

Holman, Hungary Creek and Pocahontas

*all dances held at Fox Hall unless otherwise noted*

Date Time Theme Dress Code
Friday, September 11, 2026 5:30 pm - 6:45 pm Go for GOLD! semi-formal
Friday, September 25, 2026 5:30 pm - 6:45 pm Decades ReMix nice casual
favorite decade outfit or accessories optional
Friday, October 9, 2026 5:30 pm - 6:45 pm In Living Color semi-formal
wear favorite color(s)
Friday, October 23, 2026 5:30 pm - 6:45 pm Monster Mash costumes optional
Friday, November 6, 2026 5:30 pm - 6:45 pm Operation Gratitude semi-formal
please bring hand-written letter to our Armed Forces & any leftover Halloween candy to send to them
Friday, November 20, 2026 5:30 pm - 6:45 pm Hooked on Country casual/western (boots, bandanas, jeans, etc.)
Sunday, December 6, 2026 2:00 pm - 3:00 pm The 82nd Holly Ball
The Woman's Club
211 E. Franklin Street
semi-formal
monetary donations are accepted for The Henrico Christmas Mother

Sixth Grade (C) Cotillion Schedule 2026

Orchard House, Short Pump, St. Benedict and St. Mary's

*all dances held at Fox Hall unless otherwise noted*

Date Time Theme Dress Code
Saturday, September 12, 2026 5:00 pm - 6:15 pm Go for GOLD! semi-formal
Saturday, September 26, 2026 5:00 pm - 6:15 pm Decades ReMix nice casual
favorite decade outfit or accessories optional
Saturday, October 10, 2026 5:00 pm - 6:15 pm In Living Color semi-formal
wear favorite color(s)
Saturday, October 24, 2026 5:00 pm - 6:15 pm Monster Mash costumes optional
Saturday, November 7, 2026 5:00 pm - 6:15 pm Operation Gratitude semi-formal
please bring hand-written letter to our Armed Forces & any leftover Halloween candy to send to them
Saturday, November 21, 2026 5:00 pm - 6:15 pm Hooked on Country casual/western (boots, bandanas, jeans, etc.)
Saturday, December 5, 2026 5:00 pm - 6:00 pm The 82nd Holly Ball
The Woman's Club
211 E. Franklin Street
semi-formal
monetary donations are accepted for The Hanover Christmas Mother

Sixth Grade (D) Cotillion Schedule 2026

Acton Academy West End, Bailey Bridge, Bell Creek, Chickahominy, Deep Creek, Goochland, Liberty, Midlothian, Millwood, Oak Knoll, Our Lady of Lourdes, Robious, Swift Creek and Tomahawk

*all dances held at Fox Hall unless otherwise noted*

Date Time Theme Dress Code
Friday, September 11, 2026 7:15 pm - 8:30 pm Go for GOLD! semi-formal
Friday, September 25, 2026 7:15 pm - 8:30 pm Decades ReMix nice casual
favorite decade outfit or accessories optional
Friday, October 9, 2026 7:15 pm - 8:30 pm In Living Color semi-formal
wear favorite color(s)
Friday, October 23, 2026 7:15 pm - 8:30 pm Monster Mash costumes optional
Friday, November 6, 2026 7:15 pm - 8:30 pm Operation Gratitude semi-formal
please bring hand-written letter to our Armed Forces & any leftover Halloween candy to send to them
Friday, November 20, 2026 7:15 pm - 8:30 pm Hooked on Country casual/western (boots, bandanas, jeans, etc.)
Sunday, December 6, 2026 3:30 pm - 4:30 pm The 82nd Holly Ball
The Woman's Club
211 E. Franklin Street
semi-formal
monetary donations are accepted for The Henrico Christmas Mother

Sixth Grade (E) Cotillion Schedule 2026

Quioccasin, all Richmond City Schools, Seven Hills, St. Michael's and Veritas

*all dances held at The Woman's Club unless otherwise noted*

Date Time Theme Dress Code
Sunday, September 13, 2026 3:45 pm - 5:00 pm Go for GOLD!
Fox Hall Clubhouse
13550 Causeway Drive
semi-formal
Friday, September 18, 2026 7:15 pm - 8:30 pm Decades ReMix
Fox Hall Clubhouse
13550 Causeway Drive
nice casual
favorite decade outfit or accessories optional
Friday, October 2, 2026 7:15 pm - 8:30 pm In Living Color semi-formal
wear favorite color(s)
Friday, October 16, 2026 7:15 pm - 8:30 pm Monster Mash costumes optional
Friday, October 30, 2026 7:15 pm - 8:30 pm Operation Gratitude semi-formal
please bring hand-written letter to our Armed Forces
Friday, November 13, 2026 7:15 pm - 8:30 pm Hooked on Country
Fox Hall Clubhouse
13550 Causeway Drive
casual/western (boots, bandanas, jeans, etc.)
please bring any leftover Halloween candy to send to our troops
Friday, December 4, 2026 7:15 pm - 8:15 pm The 82nd Holly Ball semi-formal
monetary donations are accepted for The Richmond Christmas Mother

Seventh Grade Cotillion Schedule 2026

*all dances held at The Woman's Club unless otherwise noted*

Date Time Theme Dress Code
Sunday, September 13, 2026 5:30 pm - 6:45 pm Go for GOLD!
Fox Hall Clubhouse
13550 Causeway Drive
semi-formal
Friday, September 18, 2026 8:45 pm - 10:00 pm Game On!
Fox Hall Clubhouse
13550 Causeway Drive
nice casual
favorite jersey or team colors optional
Friday, October 2, 2026 8:45 pm - 10:00 pm Glow Your Own Way semi-formal
neon attire or accessories optional
Friday, October 16, 2026 8:45 pm - 10:00 pm Monster Mash costumes optional
Friday, October 30, 2026 8:45 pm - 10:00 pm Operation Gratitude semi-formal
please bring hand-written letter to our Armed Forces
Friday, November 13, 2026 8:45 pm - 10:00 pm Flannel Frenzy casual (flannels)
please bring any leftover Halloween candy to send to our troops
Friday, December 4, 2026 8:45 pm - 9:45 pm The 82nd Holly Ball semi-formal
monetary donations are accepted for The Richmond Christmas Mother

Eighth Grade Cotillion Schedule 2026

*all dances held at Fox Hall unless otherwise noted*

Date Time Theme Dress Code
Saturday, September 12, 2026 6:45 pm - 8:00 pm Go for GOLD! semi-formal
Saturday, September 26, 2026 6:45 pm - 8:00 pm Clash Bash nice casual
mismatched/wacky tacky attire
Saturday, October 10, 2026 6:45 pm - 8:00 pm Hooray for Hats semi-formal
favorite/unique hat encouraged
Saturday, October 24, 2026 6:45 pm - 8:00 pm Spooky Soirée costumes optional
Saturday, November 7, 2026 6:45 pm - 8:00 pm Minute to Win It semi-formal
please bring hand-written letter to our Armed Forces & any leftover Halloween candy to send to them
Saturday, November 21, 2026 6:45 pm - 8:00 pm Waves of Fun casual (beach attire)
Saturday, December 5, 2026 6:45 pm - 7:45 pm The 82nd Holly Ball
The Woman's Club
211 E. Franklin Street
semi-formal
monetary donations are accepted for The Hanover Christmas Mother

Ninth Grade Cotillion Schedule 2026

*all dances held at Fox Hall unless otherwise noted*

Date Time Theme Dress Code
Saturday, September 12, 2026 8:15 pm - 9:30 pm Go for GOLD! semi-formal
Saturday, September 26, 2026 8:15 pm - 9:30 pm Glow Crazy nice casual
neon colors & accessories encouraged
Saturday, October 10, 2026 8:15 pm - 9:30 pm Footloose semi-formal
Saturday, October 24, 2026 8:15 pm - 9:30 pm Spooky Soirée costumes optional
Saturday, November 7, 2026 8:15 pm - 9:30 pm B-I-N-G-O! semi-formal
please bring hand-written letter to our Armed Forces & any leftover Halloween candy to send to them
Saturday, November 21, 2026 8:15 pm - 9:30 pm Pajama Party casual
appropriate PJs encouraged
Saturday, December 5, 2026 8:15 pm - 9:45 pm The 82nd Holly Ball
The Woman's Club
211 E. Franklin Street
semi-formal
monetary donations are accepted for The Hanover Christmas Mother